First, in just 5 days I'm traveling to Chicago to meet some on-line friends. Yup - I've "known" some of them for probably 12 or 13 years, starting out on an AOL message board, actually a debate board.
The topic? Whether moms should stay at home or work outside the home, specifically when our children are young. We're so past that discussion these days. I mean, how much can you say about that? (What's right for me and my family, may not be what's right for you and your family, n'est pas?)
Besides, after this many years, our kids are older and the point is moot. Day care is not an issue for most of us. We've moved on to teen and pre-teen issues and some are empty-nesters.
I love a good "Girls' Weekend" and I'm looking forward to this.
But I've never met them.
Crazy? I think not.
Sure, there's a risk that they *could be internet trolls, I suppose.
By now, we've shared a lot on the boards, many of us have friended each other on Facebook, and we've participated in book box exchanges.I'm betting we're a pretty normal bunch, :-)
I think of it as an adventure. Besides, I've never been to Chicago.I'll fill you in next Sunday.
The second thing I'm excited about? My church congregation voted today to "call"** a pastor! We've had interims for about 2 and a half years now, each one bringing their own gifts; but this feels "right" for our future ministry. This new pastor is a woman, and I have to say, I like her style. I think this is the beginning of new things as our congregation opens our heart to God's word and discerns our mission in the community. I think this new pastor is just the right person to be with us on this journey!
God is good.
All the time! ***
** "call" is the term our denomination uses when they meet with a pastor and determine whether his or her gifts and theology match the needs of the congregation. It's more than a job interview, it's a call by and to God to serve each other.
*** God is good, all the time! Is a response used often in Lutheran gatherings (at least around here) - an acknowledgement of God's gifts and blessings among us.
So, whadya think? Have you ever met any fellow bloggers or internet friends in person? Would you? Is it crazy?
Is it different, do you think, to meet for coffee or a drink when you happend to be in the same city; then it is to make plans to meet up somewhere out of town?
I've heard of internet friends who have opened up their homes to host an internet friend - frankly I'm not sure that my DH would go for that.
So, what's your take on this?
I look forward to hearing your thoughts. (My real-life friends mostly fall on the side of "Wow!, That's great, can't wait to hear about it." At least that's what they say to me.) ;-)
Enjoy the day.
